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Divorce & Family Adjustment

Parents Are The Cornerstone

For children, parents represent the cornerstone for love and security in their lives. This is why central to a child's ability cope with and adjust to the changes surrounding divorce is having parents invested in learning how to best support their child's needs during this difficult time. While all parents want what is best for their children, they may not know how best to proceed.

 

Thankfully, with a little guidance parents can learn how to better communicate with their child(ren) about divorce, plan for transitions that reflect your child's developmental needs, and begin to establish healthy, child-centered co-parenting practices. While the process of divorce often drives feelings of loss, it is also presents an opportunity to deepen relationships with one's children. 

My Approach

 

At the heart of my work is to help parents develop a safe and secure environment for children as they construct and adjust to a two-home family. As part of this, we review how to communicate with your child in a way that supports resiliency, maintains healthy social and academic functioning and strengthens the parent-child relationship. Additionally, we will review how to develop and maintain respectful co-parenting practices while taking care of your own emotions and personal boundaries.

While it is typically in the child's best interest that both parents participate, that simply may not be an option given the current circumstances. However, even one parent learning how to better support his/her child's during this difficult time can make an incredibly positive difference for both you and your child.

What to Expect For Your First Appointment

 

During our initial 60-minute appointment, plan for the frequency of sessions and how long you anticipate our work together will last. It is helpful if parent(s) come prepared to discuss the level of conflict in the divorce, your child's background (e.g., age, developmental history, and emotional/physical health), and specific concerns and, more importantly, hopes you have for yourself and your child(ren)'s future.

 
Beach at Sunset

Love Loss Lessons

An informative monthly presentation focused on helping individuals understand legal options and emotional preparedness in healthfully navigating divorce.

Presented By

Erin Moran, Psy.D., Educator

How You Parent During Divorce Matters
  • Children rarely respond with a deeper answer than "fine"when adults initiate conversations in passing. This can be especially true for children experiencing divorce as they worry about adding to parental burdens.

  • 80% of children "did not express anything" to parents regarding divorce. Children often cite feeling like there was no space given for thoughts, feelings or opinions.

  • 51% of parents felt they were responsive to their child's needs during divorce.

  • 72% of children felt parents were not responsive to their needs during divorce.

  • 67% of children who underwent therapy during parental divorce said it was "unhelpful" and "a waste of time."

  • The quality of cooperative parenting is the single most important factor for child adjustment during and following divorce.

"Do the best you can until you know better. Once you know better, do better.  ~ Maya Angelou

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503.964.3773

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